Rightly Wrong

[00:00:00] Because it's kind of like, yo, like even if she was like, yo, it's his wifey time, like party's over. I'm not being a third wheel. I ain't being weird. Like that's some weird shit for your homie to still

[00:00:12] like he see your lady pull up and he's still like trying to still trying to hang out and have god time and shit. That's some weird shit. You don't know what's going on. I might've just got myself in trouble when you fucking it up for me.

[00:00:24] I ain't shamed by your drink man. Everybody welcome back to another episode of the According to Wes podcast as always we got D-Law. D-Law, the devil's son-in-law in the building.

[00:00:45] Air horns inserted. As always you gotta be wet. That's what I'm supposed to be doing in my spare time. I'm still working on integrating that soundboard into this whole situation. I've been researching

[00:00:59] Wes. It's coming along and then coming along nicely. But yeah, man, it's uh, it's been a while. It's been a while. Yeah, you know life is good. Me and the wife are good. You know everything's good.

[00:01:15] What was that song? Schoolboy Q? Everything's, it was gravy. That's what it's called. Everything is gravy. You listen to Blue Lips? Never heard of him. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's

[00:01:27] Schoolboy Q's new album Blue Lips. No, I didn't know he came out with a new album. I know he uh, I thought he took a break. Yeah, he took a break. He's still with Top Dog? That part I'm not quite sure

[00:01:38] one actually. But uh yeah, he took a break. He don't put out music like uh, I mean it's like Kendrick Kendrick don't put out music all the time. Yeah. Always sell, always sell people like when uh,

[00:01:52] like people rap fans and stuff like that. I would say uh, Schoolboy Q is my uh, my spare animal. Because everything about that dude is just like yo, that's what I be thinking in the inside

[00:02:01] and some of the shit on the outside too. Like this, the uh, you know, the interviews and shit that he's done and then put them music videos and shit. Some of that stuff, not all of the stuff.

[00:02:12] Yeah, yeah, yeah. But yeah, I got a new album. I think it came out last week. I unfortunately browsed through it. I didn't get a chance to like sit with it in this but like, all right,

[00:02:22] this is dope so I can't give you any critiques but it's Schoolboy Q. All this shit is dope to me so. But yeah man, he had an album that came out. Uh, it's been a while. Uh, the family's

[00:02:40] putting together Ikea furniture over there. I assume. Yeah, I camo-zorn. I hope that motherfucker survived that show because Amazon was hitting this with a cover certain things. I hope it's the first. They have been good for what me and my wife were used it for.

[00:03:02] Okay, cool. That's all. I mean honestly, that's all you can really ask for. You really gotta follow the instructions on the Amazon stuff so that that way you're not like top loading it and all this other stuff so you gotta make sure you're doing it right.

[00:03:17] Um, but other than that, I mean, it is what it is, you know. It's for right now, especially if we're planning on moving one more time, um, then that's what we kind of need. You know, we have the

[00:03:33] downside so that when we do move, if we decide that we don't want this same furniture and we want someone to deliver new furniture to our new place, then we can versus, um, trying to lug out

[00:03:47] heavy furniture. Yeah, I ain't gonna lie man. I've only moved like not even a half of the times but that buying front that buying new furniture shit is a move who the fuck wants to move all your

[00:03:59] shit? Yeah. Or getting movers. Can you guys worry about that shit? I think that's what we're going for is that I mean, we're still probably getting movers but at least if we decide not to

[00:04:12] get movers or just to move just a furniture like this down here, we can get a U-Haul. Well, honestly, if we decided to move again with the way the furniture is now, we honestly really could do it

[00:04:29] ourselves, you know, get a couple of fraternity guys, tell them I'll give them a piece of beer and you know, whatever and help us move this furniture and we'd be sure you give me as long

[00:04:40] as you give them the pizza and beer after the furniture is moved. Oh no, it has to be after because you know, if you do it before, that's a dead issue. It would work when we like yo,

[00:04:52] you're supposed to be helping us move not hanging with them. Right. But we don't I mean, honestly, we really we don't have a lot of stuff. So it's not necessarily it's not necessarily like a huge move which is like, oh, all right. Yeah. It's not that bad.

[00:05:19] Yo, I just sent you a clip. Take a look at that clip and let me know what you do and we want to talk about what you just heard. And it's right up your alley. Math. That's all I want to say.

[00:05:34] Why was it not the math is racist clip? No, no, I've seen that one, but somewhat up your alley. Is this the ladies rejects man because of his salary? Hey, just look at it. I agree with them. You should have popped it earlier. The first

[00:05:52] thing that's made about my money. Yo, but she primed the question was since you've been talking sassy, I have a little bit more questions to ask you before we continue. And I'm right. I'm like, if she said that to me, I would have just said pop your balloon.

[00:06:07] Right. Because she the next question she leaves with with your salary. I'm like, how does the sassy just need to wish my salary? And it goes back to what I was saying a couple

[00:06:17] episodes ago, like, yo, like, unfortunately, there are women that would just go right out and ask you for your salary rather than doing basic homework. Like homeboy said, and go on glass door and figure it out. It's a way to do things. You ain't got to come off,

[00:06:33] you know, gold diggerish. You could be gold diggerish on the low. Like, okay, he's in accounting. If he's doing everything he's supposed to be doing, this is the medium range that he should be making. You're simple. You ain't got to have an uncomfortable conversation.

[00:06:48] And he tried to tell her that and she's still coordinate it to me. This is one school. Yeah, definitely. Hey, I ain't gonna lie. I've been like, so if what I make the term is if you're going to be with me then I'm not asking the question.

[00:07:08] I'm not. I ain't even going to all that farm. I'm like, all right, so about your balloon. And then try to make him feel guilty about it by saying I popped your balloon because you

[00:07:25] didn't answer the question but she would have popped it regardless. He answered the question. Yo, so basically is this like, yo, fuck if I don't want my shit out there. So other people can be disingenuous, you know, disingenuous with me.

[00:07:40] Disingenuous? Disingenuous with me because they see me on this platform. Now everybody know how much I make. Just Google the shit and just figure it out. Accountants make some decent money. Accountants make a lot of money, especially if they're

[00:07:54] doing what they need to do. And homeboys sound like he was from the UK. All they do over there is finance. So it's just kind of like, come on now. That's what they go to school for. Finance, finance, attorneys and doctors.

[00:08:10] And doctors. That's all they do. I'm just like, she fucked that up. She fucked that up or he dodged a bullet. Dodged a bullet. She'd have been like, let's go on this trip. Let's spend all this money. That's what doubt have been. Yeah. Most definitely.

[00:08:36] Hey, yo, so y'all went to the crazy crap. Yep. Yeah, she pulled up on me. I'm like, oh, okay. You invited her or she was just like, nah, surprise, surprise niggas. She said, surprise, surprise nigga. Oh, you didn't know?

[00:08:53] Yo, I'm gonna call somebody. It's pretty much what it is. So I'll give you this short version. So she had a chapter meeting and everything that she went to. So, and I had tutoring. And so I was going to come home because our son had came home

[00:09:19] and I was like, all right, well, I gotta go home because we got you got a company in the house. I'm like, all right. Well, she's like, well, I already could. I said, okay.

[00:09:28] So I went to the crazy crap about that finish tutor. And I was like, all right. And I'm sitting there and she calls me. She's like, so what's your own house in me? I said, how's it mean, but we can go through our regular conversation.

[00:09:40] And so then it turns into I was like, yeah, she's like, where are you at? I said, oh, I'm at the crazy crap. Oh, you had a crazy crump. So yeah, over here, it's all into my boy. Which, you know, we're talking about

[00:09:53] stuff and coming up with these UFC best we're trying to put up. She says, okay, bye. So I'm thinking in my head, I'm like, okay, how was this okay? I mind you, I know she is there. Was it okay by aggressive or was it like, all right, okay.

[00:10:13] Well, it wasn't aggressive. It wasn't necessarily aggressive. It was how quickly she hung up the phone. It was like, okay, bye. Let me pull this up. That's what it is. Something in his tone, something in your tone was like,

[00:10:30] you know what? Shit ain't culture over there. He haven't always was it like he's having too much fun or was it like he having too much inconspicuous fun? I don't know what the fuck going on over

[00:10:41] I just wanted to see for myself. You wanted to make sure I was at the bar with the same, the person I told her I was with. And because the way she hung up the phone, it was like, okay,

[00:10:56] bye. Click wasn't even, I didn't even get a chance to say bye myself. That's, I was like, okay, that was a little weird. I don't know if she's mad, but I was like, you know what

[00:11:04] I'm saying. You proceeded to eat. I'm not going to even worry about it because I'm like, I ain't doing that wrong. I'm at the bar talking to the homie. We getting our best

[00:11:16] together so we can try and make some money. I ain't gonna laugh. That would have happened to me. I'm like, yo, did I forget to wash the clothes? No bullshit. I'm like, what the fuck did I not do?

[00:11:28] Yeah. I was just like, I didn't run through your head at all. Well, no, because the other thing was, you know, because when we were talking, I was telling her that, you know,

[00:11:39] you know, we got to, about the whole situation in general, what had transpired anyway that we were talking about. So I was like, all right. So then she's like, it happens. But I spoke to

[00:11:51] her. My total mean is not acceptable. This ain't other things. I'm like, all right. But if she hung up the phone real quick, so I'm like, all right. Well, it's weird. She just

[00:11:58] hangs up the phone. In my head, I'm like, bullshit. I was like, oh, let me check my face. In my head, I was like, that's a little weird. I said it wouldn't shock me if she pulled up.

[00:12:09] But I wasn't and I kept looking back. I'm like, she's gonna pull up. I know she's gonna pull up. And time went by and nothing happened. I'm like, all right, well, maybe she ain't pulled up.

[00:12:18] Maybe I'm just, you know, maybe it's just like, all right, whatever. So I'm sitting there drinking and I'm looking at wrestling memes because it's just, you know, Rayvon, the guy had gone and like

[00:12:29] bust some tables real quick. I know someone pulls up next to me talking about some, is someone sitting here? I'm like, I'm all right. Well, I'm like, no, I look and I'm like, oh, is you I'm like, hello.

[00:12:44] So question is, does she buy you a drink? No. Oh my gosh. No. Is anyone sitting here and she didn't even buy you a drink? Didn't even buy me a drink. Didn't

[00:12:56] even try to buy my pants off. Didn't even try to buy my pants off. You wouldn't accept. I was like, so what's your name? And she looked at me like, huh? So then the funny part was,

[00:13:13] this was what got even funnier was everyone who would normally talk to me while I'm there wouldn't talk to me because they was like, yo, our boy about to get some play and they don't know

[00:13:25] that that's your wife. So they let you, they didn't act cockbog at all. They let you do your thing. It was like, let's see how smooth is dude is you always talking shit. Let's see this.

[00:13:34] Let's see this play out. Oh man. I was like, ain't nobody come talk to me. Normally people were like, oh yeah. Oh, do you think this better go through and blah, blah, blah, blah? No one said

[00:13:47] nothing to me. My boy would come over periodically and just kind of come over and stand around and talk a little bit. But he wasn't, but he wasn't like, like he normally woke up because you were

[00:13:58] there. So today when I went to the crazy crap, I asked one of the other people, I was like, I said, so how come you're just all of a sudden abandon me when my wife showed up?

[00:14:07] There's like, because we knew that was your wife. I was like, oh, hey, yo, they some good dudes because it's kind of like, yo, like even if she was like, yo, this is his wifey time, like party

[00:14:18] over. I'm not being a third wheel. I ain't being weird. Like that's some weird shit for your homie to still like he see your lady pull up and he's still like trying to still trying to

[00:14:30] hang out and have God time and shit. That's some weird shit. You don't know what's going on. I might have just got myself in trouble when you fucking it up for me. I ain't shamed by your drink, man. He tried.

[00:14:49] Do the boss, do the boss babe thing and just like had the drink come don't even ask. So I was like, that's what you want, boy? You know everybody in there didn't listen to me. They listened to him. Don't listen to her.

[00:15:06] Because the bartender, I don't know what was going on. I know she said, you know, something had happened personally to her. So she was she was kind of like getting herself together. I'll leave it that way. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:15:22] Getting herself together. But even I kind of was like, you good? I'm like, oh, okay. All right. All right. But yeah, they all kind of like back the way and it was like, yeah, we knew that was your

[00:15:37] wife. Oh, I didn't know you. I knew this. Well, we just assume because we know nobody going to pull up to you just talking to you. Nothing is myself like, well, damn, am I that ugly?

[00:15:49] No, they just know so you're looking at it the wrong way in front of your wife too. What they know is that you a good faithful dude and it would not be another girl. So it is your wife. Of course it has to be said the wrong thing.

[00:16:02] It has to be my wife because nobody come over to me and kiss me. Oh, that's what happened. Then mom tried role play with her since she and we we working on a role playing

[00:16:17] we were she you know, I was like, so what I gotta do to take you home? You know, what I gotta do to take you home? And she starts cracking up laugh and I'm like, oh my lord. Like really, you thought it was funny. Like, come on.

[00:16:35] Could at least play the law but no. But then eventually she was like, sure, I'll come home with you, you know, after we, you know, you know,

[00:16:49] then she did offer to pay for the meal or she offered to pay for the food. I was paying for the drinks. But the lady put it all on the same tab and well that ended that. Yo,

[00:17:10] she tried to save home girl Parker. She like, look, that's not how it's supposed to go. Yes, I pay for it. But she was like, oh, thank you for paying for my meal. I mean, if you want to go home to your house for a nightcap, we can.

[00:17:24] I was like, all right, cool. Hey, you're supposed to just go along with it. I put the sound like I got gang. Oh my gosh. You know what it sound like to me? She came. Yeah, I talked. Yeah.

[00:17:44] Watchable level was on the TV and it was like, oh, shit, we supposed to be roleplaying. Let's try that out. Y'all both laughed at each other. And yeah, I went home. That's what that sound like. That's pretty much what happened. Oh man.

[00:18:01] What's where happened? We ate. We did all that. Everything was Gucci. And yeah, that was pretty much the night. Then she fell asleep and I fell asleep and then we both woke up. And yeah, that was pretty much that time.

[00:18:24] Shit. Yesterday I was I was at one of my not one. I was at my nephew's. Yeah, I guess one of my one of my nephew's a Taekwondo competition, my youngest nephew. And man, it was the first time I was there,

[00:18:43] first time seeing him like competing stuff like that. But interesting. It was a long ass fucking day. He won two golds, one for sparring and one for like the form and stuff like that. It was pretty interesting to see.

[00:18:59] I was definitely the uncle on the sideline coaching too hard to the point where his coach was like, yo, you can't do that. He could get disqualified and he can't hear me because he's listening to you. And I'm like, fair enough. They can get disqualified for coaching. Yes.

[00:19:15] Fair enough, but it was all y'all. Take it last minute. That's not it. I didn't say all that. Yo, I kept yelling because my nephew's fixed. I kept yelling at him to punch. I'm like punch, you can punch. He was just kicking.

[00:19:27] He didn't know Taekwondo is like 90% kicks and shit. So, yeah, man. His little ass was winded. Winded like, like tired because I think he had to do like two fights back to back and then both of them went to like three rounds.

[00:19:42] Like he'll crush the first round, get tired in a second and, and, you know, muster up something that, you know, you know, to win the to win in the third round. But it was a entirely long day.

[00:19:55] I was like, man, this is what it's like to have fucking kids. Your whole Saturday just fucking gone. Who's out and resting to, yo, resting, yo. Oh, yeah. Yeah, we don't be a the type of houses that I seen out there. I've seen apartments on the water,

[00:20:12] like condos or whatever on the water and some houses on the water. I was at Westlake high school. Grant Hill went to this high school. Yep. Okay. So you know the area then? Yeah, I know the area. Yeah, that's what it was at.

[00:20:25] And I was like, you know what? At first I was a lady I've been thinking about if I wanted to add on to the house to kind of make more space and shit like that.

[00:20:34] And then just seeing what I saw, I was like, my fuck that now we get a different house. I was like, oh my kids to go to a good school. Now that I'm moving out the fear facts or anything like that, but like at least something equivalent.

[00:20:48] Like I'm like, nah, I'm not adding on to this fucking house. I'll take the 100 to 200,000 and try to put it towards a, you know, something somewhere else in a different neighborhood and shit. But man, I was amazed.

[00:21:05] And yeah, I was amazed like shit, you know, was raining like fuck yesterday. Oh yeah. That's what we went to that Airbnb. Yeah, that's exactly what we went to before the Airbnb. Yeah, I mean, I'm going to ask you, fear facts. Rest there. Rest there. Yeah.

[00:21:22] I'm going to say fear facts, but rest there. Yep. Yeah, man. Rest there. Which I do out there for Airbnb. That was my birthday. Dave's birthday. Okay. Once was up. Some houses. Dang it. Yeah. That was the same time.

[00:21:38] It was like a, I forgot who was fighting that night, that weekend that we went down. But pretty much the wife went to sleep and I was like, all right, well, I'm in walking this is like the strip. So I kind of like went out on the strip.

[00:21:51] Found a bar that was open, sat at the bar and watched all the drunk people. People watch. Yeah. People watching is just one of the things I prefer to do. Yeah. Because at least I know what's going on around me.

[00:22:10] And it was like, I told my husband, it was just one chick at the bar. She was so drunk. She got mad at whoever she was supposed to be there with. She got mad at them because they like Leffer. Leffer at the bar?

[00:22:24] I think Leffer in general, really. And she was like, how come, yeah, how come you didn't come back for me? And I'm like, okay. So she's like, so she's a what's your name? I said, I'm married. I left it right there with them. They will do that.

[00:22:46] Wayne ain't gonna go down this. I don't even feel like talking to you. So the quickest way to do this is to say, yeah, I'm married. Even if it was going to be an innocent conversation.

[00:22:58] Oh no, there's no such thing as an innocent conversation when that person drunk like that. Hell no. Oh, they were drunk drunk. They were drunk drunk. Yeah, you're right. They were drunk drunk. There ain't no innocent conversation. Never know man.

[00:23:10] You might be talking to somebody that might start talking about stocks and shit. They know not when they had drunk. Not when they had drunk. If they were, this is the type of drunk talk I want to have about stocks like, man,

[00:23:23] that you know, I work for this company and we're about to be blah, blah, blah, blah, you should have best in this company now because you're about to unveil blah, blah, blah, blah. I don't care if it's inside of trading them other fuckers don't know me.

[00:23:34] He don't know me. That's the type of drunk conversations I want to have. I'm like, what's the name of this company again? Uh huh. And when is the date? Okay. That's the type of drunk talk I want. All that other shit don't care for.

[00:23:51] That's probably why I don't hang out at bars. Like, I don't really want to get to know people. I don't want to know where you from. I don't want to know what's going on. I don't really want to talk about politics. Let's talk about these sports on TV.

[00:24:08] Cars make you moving. I'm not a bar person as you can see. Hey, you been to the bar with me. Yeah, but I'm, that's different. We're friends and shit. So that's, I'm talking about like going to the, you go to the bar and you can go by yourself.

[00:24:27] I can't do that. I go to the bar, go by myself, eat in there, roll out. You're there chilling. I can't do that. That's never been in me. Yeah. It wasn't, it's not how I used to be.

[00:24:42] I used to be, if I couldn't sit at the bar or if it was a lot of people, I wouldn't even go in the bar. Really? Yeah. That's how it used to be. Oh yeah, man. So you took a look at the topic. Yeah.

[00:24:59] I took a look at the topic. I was like, kind of topic is this. What's your main, what's the topic is this? We are in a greenest that yes, you're the relationship you have with your wife is one is one of the most important relationships you have.

[00:25:18] And then I prophesied it with like, accept your wife. Yeah. My relationship with my wife is the most important relationship I have. Yes. Okay. So what's second to that? What's second to that? Private mom. Your mom? The first one should be God.

[00:25:47] The first one should be God, she said. She's messing this up. I agree. She messed my hands up. Ah, damn. All right. Well, true, true indeed. Number one should be God. So aside from God and your wife because we're both married. Probably say moms. Probably moms. Why mom?

[00:26:31] Mom's always saying carry me. So that and then my grandfather probably. And I feel like my answer is a little bit cold now. Oh, would you say to nephew? Not me. You? Hell yeah. Oh, yeah. I can't be the person I need to be. That's just me.

[00:27:01] That's part of my perspective, but I feel like I can't be. I can't be. I don't want to say of service, but I can't be. What is the term I'm looking for?

[00:27:15] Since I'm living with me and it's me, I won't be able to live with myself if I don't truly understand myself or if I don't truly have moments where I cater to myself. All right. So I feel like with my mom because I thought about my mom too.

[00:27:31] Like my mom will be my second or third, you know, G.O.D. first or second. Like my mom will be my second. But it's just kind of like I agree that she should be my second or she is like a strong. I don't know.

[00:27:55] I'm not trying to what am I trying to say? I guess in my head, I'm like, yeah, this is how I personally feel. I can't be the good. I can't be the son I need to be or whatever have you if I'm just not.

[00:28:08] If my relationship with myself is not cool because my mom has already done what she needed to do to a degree to get me to this point. You know, the nurturing and the loving and, you know, the tools and skills of being an adult and a man.

[00:28:26] What up? You know, the tools that she can provide or what and whatnot. So in my head, I'm like, oh, that relationship is going to be a relationship. That's like a relationship that's that's going to be forever. You know what I mean? But

[00:28:42] because she is my mom, so I don't even really see that as, you know, I see that as something on his own. But I will say, yeah, my relationship, my relationship with myself. Some people don't stay true to themselves.

[00:28:57] I try to stay true to myself each and every day. Right. Yeah. That's why I hate going to work sometimes because I know I'm not being truthful and fake being interested in people and laughing and shaking hands and Yeah. No, I'm not.

[00:29:10] It's a good idea when it ain't a good idea like stupid shit like that. Right. Now, that's why I do get being true to yourself and then you being your best relationship that I can actually understand. Now, was that what I expected? Of course not.

[00:29:29] Of course that is not what I. Yeah, that's why that's why I said I feel like my shit is a little cold because you went straight to moms and granddad. Yeah, because those would be my most important relationships.

[00:29:42] I mean, in the grand scheme of it, those are probably my most important relationships is my wife, my mom, my grandfather. So yeah. I'm a wife. I'm a wife's man. What? What did you even say? What did that even mean? I don't know.

[00:30:09] I'm just making stuff up as I go. So I understand why your mom is in that while your grandfather. Oh, because I mean, I'm close to my grandfather. Yo, you know, he's grandfather. You learn a lot from him. I learned a lot from him.

[00:30:29] So at one point I had to call him every day. He's like, you call me every day and if I ain't call him and he saw me, he's like, you didn't call me. What's going on? Yeah. Did you forget? I'm saying, oh Lord.

[00:30:46] So it was a span of time where I called him every day while I was in school. Okay. So and then when I was younger, I used to go walking with him. He go, he go walking and I go and I'll go with him and everyone's like,

[00:31:02] you went walking with granddad or Lord, he asked you a bunch of math questions. Yeah. Oh Lord, that's why we don't go with him. Because of the questions. They won't be asked no math question. How people are named math. Asked no math question.

[00:31:22] It was like, you kept up with him? I said, yeah. He told me just he said, just keep running and running and then we'll walk and then we'll run. We'll walk and run, walking, running. It was fine with me.

[00:31:33] Shoot, I used to ask him, mom, can you please take me over there so I can go walking with granddad? And she'd be like, I'm not about to just take you up there so you can go walking with granddad. No, no, I'm not doing that.

[00:31:44] See my shit sound even worse now. Not not not not not due to me. I had a relationship with my grandparents like that. I mean, I had a relationship with my grandmother, like my grandmother's, like great grandmother and grandmother, but granddad is not. Yeah.

[00:32:08] That sounds so precious and sweet. It do. She was touching. Oh my god. I ain't so off nigga. I'm not even treated like that. I'm not even treating like that. Anytime that you could spend with any family is as though I just didn't have a lot of the

[00:32:31] those shared experiences that, you know, that I'll talk to my friends or my wife. Like I'm like, I ain't had those experiences. Not that I had bad experiences. I just didn't have certain experiences.

[00:32:42] So I was like, God damn, the one of my answers myself and then to myself and how I can be of service will be the best me so I can, you know, be at a best.

[00:32:56] And the way I feel like it's a weird thing to say now and I'm saying it out loud. Hey, like, while all those like while automatically I gotta think I gotta be the best me for people to, uh, you know, be good with themselves. It's weird.

[00:33:10] I don't think about it. Yeah. I've never been, uh, be the best me so people like me. I just kind of come to terms. You even gonna like me? You're going to hit me, but either way, I don't give a shit.

[00:33:22] No, I've come to terms with that too. I come to terms with that too. So I guess when I say the best me, you know how like you gun, um, how could I put it? Your personality is going to be your personality. I ain't talking about that.

[00:33:34] I'm talking about best me as far as like, um, probably like mentally. Okay. Probably a little bit mentally, a little bit, uh, emotionally, like so I'm not a raging, asshole, that type of shit.

[00:33:49] Cause I don't want to be a raging asshole or angry or, you know what I mean? Stuff like that. I do know what you mean. Yeah. Or a jerk or dickhead, you know, that though that's the stuff I'm talking about.

[00:34:05] But I, uh, like usually when I have those moments, I it's only because I either, and this is a, uh, a statement oldest time with me. I either was not working out for a long period of time and I wound myself up because that's what happens with me.

[00:34:20] And I get super stressed because I'm not letting off stress while, you know, from working out or whatever I choose to do. Cause I don't do a bunch of stuff or something's not, uh, I'm not happy with something.

[00:34:32] I'm not, and I don't, I don't consciously realize what that is yet. But so, so I feel and that regard, the reason why it's, uh, the second most relationship when important relationship for me is because it allows me to have good relationships with everybody else. All right.

[00:34:53] So I worked that out. So it's not selfish. I only, because I know if I don't have a good relationship with myself, I ain't going to want to be around nobody. And I just said that already early in this podcast, like, I love people,

[00:35:06] but I don't like people most of the time. So I'm already feeling this certain type of way. I'm not going to want to be around you. That's just what it is. My boy was talking about why we was at crazy crab.

[00:35:15] And I'm like, he's like, yeah, you know, he said, man, I like this crowd that they got here. I'm like, yeah, I do too. He's like, yeah, cause you know, once it's a, I can, he can go to a place.

[00:35:28] He can go to a place where there's white people, but once it starts being more than the average amount of white people, he feels a tad bit uncomfortable. Yeah. I laughed about it. I know that. Listen, every black man and black woman knows that feeling. Yeah.

[00:35:44] I was just like, huh? Because when he said it, I'm like, dude, you're white. Well, he's like, hey, hold up. What? Okay. Okay. He's white. I can kind of understand what he means by that too, because it's kind of like,

[00:35:56] it's going to be the group thing, the group thing thing or like everybody since they're all white in that motherfucker, they doing this one thing. And one thing that's going to be the group thing thing, one thing there's no flavor, there's no, there's no nuance.

[00:36:09] There's no, you know, there's no differentiating factors in the crowd. So it's like, she's born. There's no what? There's no cool. Yeah. I didn't want to say that. I was just saying like, you know, meeting different people. There's no cool. You can say it, man.

[00:36:28] We, we, we the people. We the people. We the people. Of course. It's funny, the white guy said that though. But yeah, he, he's a interesting person to say the least because you know, when you hear him talk, you know, he white, you know, he white.

[00:36:55] But when you, when you hear him talk about like his experiences with women and like what kind of woman he likes, even his ex-wife is, you know, a black lady. I'm like, I was like, I didn't, I didn't know. He's like, yeah.

[00:37:09] He said, he's like, man, I went to Parkdale and you know, I went to all these schools in Prince George's that were majority black. Would you think I was going to Parkdale? He was definitely getting himself a black girl. Yeah.

[00:37:22] He's like, would you think I would not like anything else? Like black is beautiful. And I'm like, I'm just listening to him. Like my man. I get it. Like black woman. But like, come on. Hey, hey, you know, come on. It's fucking hilarious, man.

[00:37:48] Well, yeah, it's always good hanging out with him because I got was reminding him about his, his debacle, not his debacle, but his, what happened when he almost kind of to a fight at a restaurant? But I don't remember that. I said, oh, I remember that.

[00:38:06] I remember it like, like who was yesterday? He's like, oh, Lord, would I dress? Oh, you know, he had himself a good old time getting into it with somebody else because they said, uh, let's cheers to minorities making money

[00:38:19] while you were chairing so you get a new job and you got offended. He's like, hold on, hold on. Hold on what? I did I hit every right? Yeah. Hold up. So he, so he was, he had just gotten a new job. Right.

[00:38:34] And he was cheersing to him having his new job. Right. And so he's like, yeah, cheers to a new job, blah, blah. And somebody that was there got a little bother and started cheers in front of the outside of bar. Yeah, let's cheers to minorities having money.

[00:38:55] And I was just like, oh my God. Like, is it, I was kind of like, is it that serious right now? Like, uh, That goes, that's the guy I don't want to be. Cheers to the guy that said cheers to the guy making money.

[00:39:16] It's kind of like, yo, stay the fuck over there. Like, you ain't even have to interject that shit. Right. That was wild. Well, I was like, you know, it happens. Like, I ain't saying that he was right.

[00:39:30] But you know what I didn't say was that he was wrong. Yeah. Hey, he cheers to minorities having money. Hey, I ain't mad at it. You know, cheers to minorities having money. I was for it. Hold on.

[00:39:43] So was this a guy like across the room or some shit like that? Or was he a part of your party? Oh, it was a guy across the room. Like across the party. We didn't know who he was. Um, but yeah, I was like, sure.

[00:39:57] That shit happens, you know. Yeah. Yeah. We all want to be there to have fun, but. So he's about to fight new. Yeah, but it wasn't on the first time we went there. It was on the second time. Okay. This is getting weirder.

[00:40:14] Yo, your chance was the first time. Yeah. You're changing the first time. Fuck all that shit. Second time, not the third. But it's warranted the first time because you just trying whatever he made it about something else because it was kind of like a reverse.

[00:40:30] It was like a fucking it was like a reverse car. It was like, because I'm pretty sure in his head, he was like, hey, another white man could think another white man like celebrating that he getting jobs and most of black people don't get jobs making money.

[00:40:47] So yeah, I'm gonna say my thing. It's kind of like, don't make it about that right now. I mean, that's kind of how I felt that that's where it was going. I was like, yo, man, this is chill. Like it's not that serious. Like, come on.

[00:41:00] He's like, all right. It wasn't until the second time when we were there and the same guy showed up and he was just like, this time he was sitting closer to us. And I was like, whatever, like everything should be cool.

[00:41:15] You know, we were all drunk last time. So it shouldn't be an issue. No, I don't even know why I even thought that. I don't even know why I thought that it was going to be a peaceful time. Eventually we buying shots and he's like mad about something.

[00:41:31] I'm like, what does he mad about? He's like, yeah, you know, because you know, you had a whole lot to say about you getting money and how minorities can't get. Oh my God. Yo, he started that off wrong. Started that off wrong. I was like, oh my Lord.

[00:41:45] Like, really, is this what we're doing today? You know, and so he there with his people's, you know, we there in the bartenders are people and I'm like, oh Lord. I ain't trying to fight today. I ain't trying to fight no day.

[00:42:02] I'm just trying to get through life. Right? Like, what do we, what do we be for? You know, like Mace said, if we ain't beefing all the broth, what the hell are we doing? It's like, come on, man. Like you mad because a white man said, I'm good.

[00:42:23] I got a new job. I ain't come on. I mean, it's not, it's, it's not but so serious at that point. Yeah. So, but hey, I don't knock nobody full. What you know what they, how do you feel? Cause maybe it was bothering him.

[00:42:43] Maybe he was struggling, you know, something was going on with him that he was like, man. Yeah. Yeah. But yeah, I get it. Yeah. I get it. That's one of the reasons why I don't really like people because at the core, people are some of the most

[00:42:59] sweetest kind is, you know, people on earth, you know what I mean? Yeah. But there are times where people are just trash and you just like, God damn man. I ain't want to, you know, I need this interaction today. And I sound like one of those situations.

[00:43:19] I ain't need this interaction today. Yeah. I'm sure we didn't need it, but unfortunately, we ended up getting it. All right. How often did you get into such a, not even though you didn't get into that situation, but how often was there situations in your younger bar years

[00:43:41] when it, you know, when it came to people? I'm not going to say frequent, but it was at least three or four times a year. Like, a lot of times it was never, you know, it was never me. It was sometimes it was other people like that.

[00:44:04] They get bothered about something. They mad about some somebody did something. I'm like, I'm a little like, come on, can we, can we all just get along? How many males, how many females, or was it all males? We're all males.

[00:44:21] I don't, I don't, I don't get into when, when females get the beef. They got nothing to do with me. Right. They beef over other stuff, stuff that I'm just like, that makes no sense. Trust me. Trust me. I know. Then again, the whole scenario I just said

[00:44:39] was kind of really over nothing. Like, like, here's the thing, both, both on both sides, it'd be something dumb. It's just like, which one is dumber? Like, I remember at work, it was a chick. She got mad at another chick because wasn't that she did anything.

[00:45:02] She was just like, she be walking around hailing her messy big shit. Like, she ain't that cute walking around her asspoked. I'm like, wait, you're mad because of what? What are you mad because you hating on her? Like, what's going on? I'm hating. She's hating.

[00:45:19] That's all that is. That's all that is. Right. That's, and I'm like, so you hating? You mad? Like, you mad because she looks good? What's going on? I'm mad because I don't got fat ass like her. Well, I mean, she was white. So I mean,

[00:45:34] I don't know what to say. You know, she was white. Like, you won't have what she has. She, you know, she's a black woman that's naturally born with it. Like, come on. Yo, speaking of white. Why was that about that fuse competition?

[00:45:50] You know how many BBLs I've seen? Uh-oh. Six. None on black woman. Really? Really. Wow. I've seen, it was a mixed crowd and it was all coming from all over the country and shit like that. So I've seen a lot of Asian people from the continent of Asia.

[00:46:11] So whether that be India, China, Chinese, I would assume. You said Chinese. I didn't say that. I said Chinese. I would assume. Don't fucking do me like that, man. Make me so crazy. But let me just say mixed,

[00:46:29] mixed it was a mixed bag and I'm not fucking and everybody, not everybody. I saw a lot of Balenciaga shoes, a lot of Louis Vuitton purses, a lot of Louis Vuitton skate shoes, you know a multitude of things that was like, oh there's money up in this bitch.

[00:46:47] I say that to say BBLs all the way, all the way through no black woman with BBLs. So that was something I've never seen. And I ain't even talking about young women. These were older women. They was like they're in their 40s. Yeah. Indian women, BBL, Latino women,

[00:47:07] BBL, white women, BBL. Another white woman, BBL. I was like I don't understand what was going on. I was like I was in another world. I didn't understand what was going on. Cougar time. Cougar time. Actually I guess. They tried to get some young penis. Yeah.

[00:47:28] Yo I seen a lady come in some slacks, turtleneck, bull pumps, BBL. I'm like yo what the fuck? What is going on? And I'm sitting with my sister and I'm just like yo I don't understand. I could not and I can't talk to her about it

[00:47:43] because she would be like fuck you looking for her. I'm like nah I'm doing a study. It's not that I'm looking. I'm just like I don't understand where I'm at. I've never been in an environment where it's just like

[00:47:53] I see that there is money but it looks like it's regular. I'm talking about like dirty Louis Vuitton shoes, sneakers, or maybe a lady with the big Louis purse and she got on sweatpants and some Nikes.

[00:48:07] But you know how they say don't mix and match your brains and shit. The sweatpants, new balance, or Adidas and the fucking shoes. And I get down I'm like god damn this shit look horrible. But she looked like she had some money.

[00:48:22] I'm like I don't understand what the fuck going on. I can't call it. I can't call it. But shout out to BBLs when they look and all of them didn't look crazy. They look, you know how they got the bubble look right?

[00:48:39] So it was just kind of like it wasn't like how some woman do. You'd be like yo how you like your butt. It wasn't like that. So it wasn't like that. It was weird. I didn't understand.

[00:48:55] And my head I'm like yo is this what it's like to be fucking living in a rich fucking neighborhood? I didn't get it. I didn't get it. I didn't get it. I'm like I might be living my life wrong. It might be. Or right. I don't know.

[00:49:10] Time will tell. Could be. You could be living rightly wrong. I would like to say wrongly right. Wrongly right sounds like yo you're doing the wrong shit that society you're doing the wrong shit because society wants you to do this but it's the right thing for you.

[00:49:31] Wrongly right. Rightly wrong is you're doing all the right shit that everybody wants you to do and this is my opinion. But it's all wrong. It ain't good for you. Wrongly right. Wrongly right. I will live a wrongly right life. Hey. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

[00:49:54] I've been drinking on the clock but um. Hey man who doesn't drink on the clock? I mean you shouldn't. I only do it when I work from home. What are you talking about? I work from home too. I ain't talking about the tutoring gig. Oh.

[00:50:18] That's why I said you shouldn't. Hey man. Yo I posted a clip right. I don't know if you. Yo so the crazy thing is I post the clips on Instagram. Not the same type of motion I get when I post them on YouTube.

[00:50:38] I'm like man fucking Facebook is like. So I barely post on Instagram now I'm posting everything on YouTube. I posted the fucking clip where uh where you went to Ocean City and you peed out like 10 pounds or some shit like that.

[00:50:53] Oh when I came back home from Ocean City. Yes. Yeah. Yes. So one one I cut like that conversation. I made two clips out of one part of that conversation. Right. One fucking clip got like 200 some views on YouTube. Same. What?

[00:51:11] In a couple in a couple likes I gotta remember what was being said and a couple likes and another one got like 20 but I posted that at a weird time. But on Instagram the shits don't even go nowhere and I'm like I don't I got

[00:51:28] on Instagram I have way more followers than I do on this YouTube page and I'm posting the shit too I'm like nah I'm I'm sticking with YouTube on this I've been playing this shit wrong. You know most people use YouTube a whole lot more.

[00:51:40] Yeah but I have more followers that page I have more followers on Instagram it's weird to me. So I've been slowly building up the fucking YouTube. So we had 200 views about me coming back all swollen retaining water and pissed out 10 pounds of water that night wow.

[00:51:59] Let me let me double check that. Of all clips that I would have thought. No it's more that we had a bunch we had a bunch of views on. What am I looking for? Let's see. Let's see. Oh that wasn't I did that wrong.

[00:52:26] So the the water drain the water drain had 21 it was the mom and son co-worker thing that way we just talked about the other day. That had 150 that I've read it wrong that had 151. Oh my look Gladys with the wagon. I'm trying to look for the other one.

[00:52:49] Gladys with the wagon. Gladys with the wagon. All things I would have thought Gladys with the wagon. Hey I'll say that to say check out the fuck with the YouTube. At best West fuck with it. We need more followers on that motherfucker. But it doesn't shock me.

[00:53:15] It doesn't shock me at all Gladys with the wagon. Yeah it doesn't shock me at all that that will be a highly viewed one. Also the Joll of Rice drink 152. When I try to make Joll of Rice. Yep. Oh my god.

[00:53:33] So we we're getting there we get there we get there I was like if I would have known this shit I would have not been fucking around with fucking Instagram like this. Hey that means we can almost start putting commercials in there.

[00:53:46] And we can start making these are shorts. Yeah that's what the 15 hour when you work 15 hours on your first day 102. Wow. 102 for my first day with the state. Oh my god. A pretty face don't mean you get an expensive date 2000. 2400 K views. How many likes in this life.

[00:54:18] 12 likes no dislikes. And that's just from these erratically like posts and stuff there I'm like all right this will be done. That's what I'm doing I'm posting shit there. That is hilarious that is not what I thought was happening on there. Yeah. Fuck with us.

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