According To Wes

Generosity has been marketed like it’s a dollar amount, but I see it as something harder and more valuable: a state of being. I unpack what generosity really means, including its roots in “noble spirit,” and why the difference between charity and generosity matters. Charity can be a moment. Generosi...

A $125 grocery run for “not even a lot” of food turns into a bigger question: when money gets tight, what do couples do next, and who gets a say? We kick things off with cost of living reality, why meat prices make grilling feel like a luxury, and how trying to eat clean can clash with a tighter bud...

You can be your own biggest supporter and still act like a stranger gets the final vote on your worth. I sit with a sharp old quote that exposes a modern problem: we’re wired to protect ourselves, yet we keep handing our confidence to titles, salaries, grades, and social media likes. When that happe...

Your worth isn’t a number on a screen, a title on a business card, or a highlight reel on social media. I’m digging into a deceptively simple Stoic line often attributed to Marcus Aurelius: “A person’s worth is measured by the worth of what he values.” Once you sit with it, it flips the modern defin...

You know that moment when the family photo matters more than the people in it? We start with jokes about hangovers, sliders, and the vanishing act of mac and cheese, then take a sharp turn into what really counts: presence over pageantry. A parent’s devastating accident becomes the test—who called, ...

What if the quietest move is the most powerful one? We explore deference as a deliberate act of strength—less about giving up your voice and more about choosing when to honor the right voice at the right time. Instead of equating respect with weakness, we reframe deference as a fast track to wisdom,...