Episodes
You Do Not Owe Anyone Your Culture
One minute we’re arguing Spurs vs Knicks like it’s a chess match, the next we’re knee deep in a relationship problem that hits way closer to home. We start with NBA Finals predictions, injury questions, and why some series feel like they’re decided as much by whistles and physicality as by pure tale...
A Reused Diamond Shows Who Still Cares
A woman spots what looks like her old wedding diamond on her ex-husband’s new fiancée and wants to “do the right thing” by telling her. That one scenario opens a much bigger door for us: when does honesty become interference, and when is “closure” really just unfinished feelings? We break down why c...
Menu Panic To Life Plans With Decisiveness
Indecision does not just slow you down, it drains you. If you have ever stared at a menu for ten minutes or replayed a big life choice until the moment passes, you have felt how analysis paralysis steals time, energy, and joy. I dig into decisiveness as a practical, trainable quality that can make o...
You Can Love Your Family And Still Take Them To Court
Somebody can be “family” and still put your future at risk. We start with a heavy reality check about loss, unexpected illness, and how fast life can flip when you don’t see what someone is carrying. We also talk about what support actually looks like when you can’t solve the problem, only show up w...
Generosity Starts When You Put The Phone Down
Generosity has been marketed like it’s a dollar amount, but I see it as something harder and more valuable: a state of being. I unpack what generosity really means, including its roots in “noble spirit,” and why the difference between charity and generosity matters. Charity can be a moment. Generosi...
Wes & DeLaw | Grocery Bills And Relationship Rules
A $125 grocery run for “not even a lot” of food turns into a bigger question: when money gets tight, what do couples do next, and who gets a say? We kick things off with cost of living reality, why meat prices make grilling feel like a luxury, and how trying to eat clean can clash with a tighter bud...
The Algorithm Is Not Your Therapist
You can be your own biggest supporter and still act like a stranger gets the final vote on your worth. I sit with a sharp old quote that exposes a modern problem: we’re wired to protect ourselves, yet we keep handing our confidence to titles, salaries, grades, and social media likes. When that happe...
Stop Chasing Cheesecake And Clout
Your worth isn’t a number on a screen, a title on a business card, or a highlight reel on social media. I’m digging into a deceptively simple Stoic line often attributed to Marcus Aurelius: “A person’s worth is measured by the worth of what he values.” Once you sit with it, it flips the modern defin...
Wes & DeLaw | Choose Presence Over Pageantry And Call It Love
You know that moment when the family photo matters more than the people in it? We start with jokes about hangovers, sliders, and the vanishing act of mac and cheese, then take a sharp turn into what really counts: presence over pageantry. A parent’s devastating accident becomes the test—who called, ...









