About The Podcast

Tired of the same old relationship advice? Looking for a real take on navigating marriage, friendships, and becoming your best self?

Join me as I share my experiences and perspectives as a Black man on love, connection, and personal growth.

We're keeping it honest, relatable, and saying our quiet thoughts out loud.

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Stop Being "Polite"—It's Making You Invisible
According To WesJuly 15, 2026
27
00:20:3314.17 MB

Stop Being "Polite"—It's Making You Invisible

You can be calm, polite, and still be completely dishonest and that’s where the exhaustion starts. We’re digging into a sneaky habit that drains your energy without you noticing: translating your real feelings into something more “manageable” for other people. At work it looks like corporate masking...

The One Toxic Habit You Must Break Before It Ruins Your Mind
According To WesJuly 01, 2026
26
00:15:3010.72 MB

The One Toxic Habit You Must Break Before It Ruins Your Mind

Complaining can feel like truth-telling, but it often acts more like a slow drain on your energy, your focus, and your relationships. I dig into a blunt Stoic line often attributed to Marcus Aurelius: “Don’t be overheard complaining, not even to yourself.” The first half is social discipline, becaus...

Wes & DeLaw | Appreciation Is The Relationship Currency Men Notice
According To WesJune 22, 202601:26:1759.29 MB

Wes & DeLaw | Appreciation Is The Relationship Currency Men Notice

A simple Father’s Day question turns into a full-on relationship reality check: if you’re dating a man for over a year, and he’s a dad, do you show up with a gift, a plan, or nothing at all? We talk through the messy middle where nobody wants to feel “obligated,” but everybody wants to feel apprecia...

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