About The Podcast
Tired of the same old relationship advice? Looking for a real take on navigating marriage, friendships, and becoming your best self?
Join me as I share my experiences and perspectives as a Black man on love, connection, and personal growth.
We're keeping it honest, relatable, and saying our quiet thoughts out loud.

Recent Episodes
Let Me Check The Doppler Real Quick
Weather stories turn into real talk about tornado warnings, work stress, and why solitude can feel like safety. We argue through messy everyday ethics from EV charging at a family member’s house to reporting a coworker who fakes medical leave for a vacation. • Forecast chaos in Maryland and why plan...
Wes & DeLaw | Who Actually Owns What In Your Life
We bounce from sugary canned cocktails to the not-so-glam basics of hygiene, sleep, and daily habits that quietly shape your mood and your confidence. Then we get blunt about money expectations in dating and what to do when “free” housing comes with zero ownership and a mountain of repairs. •Cutwate...
Wes & DeLaw | Mom Put A Phone Bill In My Name
We talk through the difference between escaping your life and building one you can actually live in, even when prices are high and stress is constant. Then we get into two messy money stories where family loyalty collides with credit, debt, and hard boundaries. • reacting to high gas prices and who ...
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