The According To Wes Podcast
You Can Love Your Family And Still Take Them To Court
Somebody can be “family” and still put your future at risk. We start with a heavy reality check about loss, unexpected illness, and how fast life can flip when you don’t see what someone is carrying. We also talk about what support actually looks like when you can’t solve the problem, only show up w...
Generosity Starts When You Put The Phone Down
Generosity has been marketed like it’s a dollar amount, but I see it as something harder and more valuable: a state of being. I unpack what generosity really means, including its roots in “noble spirit,” and why the difference between charity and generosity matters. Charity can be a moment. Generosi...
Wes & DeLaw | Grocery Bills And Relationship Rules
A $125 grocery run for “not even a lot” of food turns into a bigger question: when money gets tight, what do couples do next, and who gets a say? We kick things off with cost of living reality, why meat prices make grilling feel like a luxury, and how trying to eat clean can clash with a tighter bud...
The Algorithm Is Not Your Therapist
You can be your own biggest supporter and still act like a stranger gets the final vote on your worth. I sit with a sharp old quote that exposes a modern problem: we’re wired to protect ourselves, yet we keep handing our confidence to titles, salaries, grades, and social media likes. When that happe...
Stop Chasing Cheesecake And Clout
Your worth isn’t a number on a screen, a title on a business card, or a highlight reel on social media. I’m digging into a deceptively simple Stoic line often attributed to Marcus Aurelius: “A person’s worth is measured by the worth of what he values.” Once you sit with it, it flips the modern defin...